tantra sex is not a performance

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And that's what I basically that's my biggest benefit from tantra because in western Europe we are taught the sex is something to do to somebody or to be done to somebody or you know it's like more like a performance than the connection uniting like just the the learning from tantra the ability and skills to stay embodied and connected to my own body then I can connect with the partner if he's also in his body. No, that's what I see as a big problem uh being a therapist that people actually find it too dangerous or too stressy or uh so they basically disconnect from the body during sexual act and they just perform.

So there's this healing attitude in tantra and uh you like uniting because you can't connect with somebody if you're not connected to yourself.