Vedic Reading Series Episode No. 13: Porn Addiction And The Need For Proper Sex Education, part 2

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hi this is arun from irons yoga dot iron i am a software engineer who mostly work with node.js php and other backend technologies and i'm an open source contributor as well i'm a tantric by birth in a family which is passing tantric wisdom from generations to generations from past 2000 years of legacy and got lucky to travel across india and got chances to study under various gurus from different backgrounds and disciplines you could connect with me in irons yoga.in here i am helping you to design a divine lifestyle which is based on vedic astrology tandra and other yogic system of understanding hi all this is the second part of our vedic reading series episode number 13 upon addiction and the need of proper sex education in this podcast we are discussing about the chat of joshua so welcome to our podcast series episode number 13 the bone addiction and the need of proper sex education part two if you haven't saw the first part of this particular podcast series please listen to porn addiction and the need of proper sex education part one before going further with this the link to the same is given over the description start with the yeah i have about uh 45 more minutes that i can go yeah uh we can go with your chat now okay great that'd be cool yeah um so do you need me do you want me to record again yes yes okay yeah i need your permission so have you ever done a vedic reading before i i never have i never have uh but i'm very i'm very interested in it so basically this is the uh [Music] is basically the techniques to uplift our own consciousness rather than that of seeking some kind of spiritual uh you know spiritual um release uh that which people see which is beyond whatever our existence is but in tundra we see this is all everything has been already um already there it's already revealed it's already revealed so what you can do is like you have to extend your own senses and things like that your own body and stuff like that so the embodiment will happen and you can live very consciously in life so this is the uh possibility of the tantra and there is not saying no to sex the sacred sexuality like kama sutra and things like that comes under the tantra only so however let's talk about your chart how you took a printout of your chart yeah i'm looking at it right now okay so i'm just gonna share you the screen um ah there we go yeah so your nakshatra is basically karthika is a group of stars when you are getting birth ascendant will be on the sky uh in that particular area there will be a group of stars are presented in uh that particular time of birth so we named uh within sun with uh 27 of them and uh from that uber nathan is kritika there is one certain yoga is being associated with the critical that will actually help you to uplift your own consciousness in the way which which is based on the uh star that when you have got birthday look so that video will be available in this particular link which you can see here and you might be needed a username and password to access that i'll share you the username and password for the same um so basically um according to your birth chart uh your paksha is shukla and the sukla paksha is associated with one bird so this is like a vulture uh you know it's um so this is your bird according to this particular star and what what does this means how does it manifest in your life is because uh you will be ha you can able to get a view of i mean what this is the uh beds point of view you can see the events in your life uh from a greater height you know how it's happening what is going around you you can see that from a greater height that is something which is actually uh manifest in your life um so that is because of the uh particular bird and this is your tree i don't know whether this is your particular area or a particular country but this is the tree which actually resonate the frequency of your soil so what happens is like you could go near to this particular tree and you can actually communicate with this particular tree and understand more uh you can actually be in love with the nature you know guys that's cool like shamanic philosophy like you know you are the part of nature so the more you uh get embodied with the nature you will be more you know you can you don't i mean people who are looking for document in their own brain is like it's actually like an escape from the reality what is happening around us you know so that is why they are trying to get into that particular trap so what happens here is like you can actually talk to this particular tree and you can go near to this particular tree and um it's resonate to your frequency of the critical this is how the ganashtra looks like in sky oh that's interesting and the gana this is asura ghana uh it's like there will be three ganas one is asura one is godly and another one is human so from that uh the asuragana which is like demonic quality this demonic quality doesn't mean that you are like i mean the semitic religions are like the religions from the west which actually uh see it as to there is demon and there is god so there is something to say yes and there is something to say no but that is not the reality if we see the life there is it's all for the life so how we are going for it that is the that is the thing which matters so here you are ghana is ashwagandha so this is like you will be having a controlling nature on what is happening around you you know so i definitely know what's that i definitely know about that so this is the this is how it's manifest in your life and yeah that drug use and things like that it's it comes to your life because you are the asuragana is how is manifest in your life um so regis is the uh one of the trikuna uh so the rajasik people uh there is uh um what happens is registered people they like masala i mean the chili kind of food and they would like to spice up their life and things like that you know so this is one of the things which is uh um in your uh uh it is equality and uh um your buddha is eric means that uh you know it's bhuti means it's uh like our mother earth what happens is like how it's manifest in manifest in your life is because you uh you allow others to be free like um uh sincerely you don't have uh the uh you allow uh peoples to experiment with you you know like it's it's like uh we does all the bad things to mother earth even though she is like you know she is yeah i don't know what you're saying yeah uh she's like she enjoy what we does to her you know so you that is how it's manifest in your life shakti so uh there is a concept in india that is half men and half women like our body is actually our soul is actually half men and half women so from that you were uh um other half is shakti and that is uh more evident on you which means that it doesn't mean that like you are more feminine how does it manifest this like it comes into creative force that it will bring up uh creativity in your life um you are you have a creative nature yeah so that is how it's uh manifest in life um and the kappa nature the kabba is the uh thing which is uh in your body which means that you will be sensitive to uh cold like you can you may develop diseases if you got so much exposed to um you know cold um then the acne uh so this is the god of you the fire acne so which means that you if you get the crazy you destroy everything you know you can burn yeah oh yeah that that's that sounds right that is the um acne then the kriya kriya is the kundalini yoga which is which has to be performed after this particular yoga the first one we have spoken about now so that is been has to be done after the uh first yoga that is kriya there is a difference between yoga and kriya so the kriya is something directly to deal with your life force and um what happens is like if you perform this so we have spoken about the uh divine uh sexuality in uh uh uh some time ago so basically the 41 days uh each partner has to perform this particular kriya then when they come into contact after this 41 days they can experience a sort of deep intimacy between them so it's like they don't have to switch from one partner to another partner in order to satisfy themselves so basically the divorce and things like that is happening is because you know the people's uh want to move on from one person to another person and if there are there are kids it is become uh it is becoming help for the kids you know so yeah these techniques can develop uh a kind of intimacy between uh both of them it's like 41 days is enough to get into that particular kind of intimacy and performance and this is the uh position uh like uh sexual position uh which which will actually get uh your partner a more intimate connection so there is basically um it's like uh ram you know ram is the goat which is that is the sexual uh uh half of you like how the sexuality works on you so uh this is how there is a uni for the partner also so when you come in contact with the partner like there will be two particular position and when you come and do that particular um intimacy like your beam position which we speak in tundra like so these are some three four position that can actually bring up your both of your swords together so this is the ram uni um so this is the uh mostly all about your nakshatra so we will go for your chart now this is the overview about your particular quality so the chart will be like it will be different for one person to another um like so here uh so tanu bhava there is ascendant is standing and tanu means you are on self so that is where you begin so what does it means ascendant is in your self position which means that you have fair quality of self-centered thinking like uh there is two kind of thought processes available which is like uh uh absolute thinking and another one is relative thinking so in tanu bhava there is ascendant is standing which means that you might be a self-centered thinking process or a self-centered thinker there is saturn is there uh i mean the world the saturn is the planet which is associated with hard work so which means that uh it is very hard for you to create world i mean which means that you might be a hard worker in order to create well okay um [Music] staying which is in fifth house so yeah who is associated with the uh um like you uh like aggression you know uh it's like aggression so this this is uh uh you have a kid he might be an aggressive kid or uh you know or you you look their life in the way sometimes the product which comes out is like aggressive yeah uh and the insist of there is nothing saying the seventh house which is actually uh talks about your relationship and in the seventh house there is venus is staying so what does it mean is like venus is on the seventh house it's it's simply saying that you will not be having a problem to figure out a partner like there will be women come to your life much more easier uh so that is because seventh house there is venus is staying and dandruff there is sun and mercury so which means that is the enemy's house there is sun and mercury is staying which means that um your father sometimes some point of time is your father is alive yes yes so some point of time you may feel like he is actually an enemy for you uh but it may not be the the case actually you know but the sun is staying on the uh eighth house along with mercury so if sun is not staying alone it is staying along with mercury so that it is actually um uh helpful actually like you may feel it under 10th house which is karma house there is jupiter is staying so uh jupiter is the uh planet uh which is actually um related to wisdom so uh you would like your karma or the uh or the way you work is like more to deal with the wisdom ah i mean the writing work you do or the uh journalist you become it's about uplifting people you you you get a certain kind of peacefulness when you uplift somebody that's that's well that's what i do now most of the time yeah so that is the uh 10th house your mother is alive yes so you would like to make your mother happy uh yeah absolutely [Laughter] i mean it's it's it's a chat so uh it will happen you know yeah no i just i i she doesn't like to talk a lot about what i do but i know that she knows i'm helping people uh she has a lot of uh she was raised with a lot of you know sexual repression and and and issues around uh sexuality but i'm just i just want her to be proud of me it it will happen you know i mean uh the things which you do uh so how so far how how many people just came out from the porn addiction like what you does for people i i have no idea you know uh it's it's it's one of those things where uh it's not like people come up and are like yeah thank you um you know it's it's it's hard to know you just you just keep doing it and hope hope your uh hope you're reaching people um so let the peoples to come out and yeah let them come out and if you once you are able to get get together of former politics maybe yeah it could be i mean the it's actually the if you can take out people's from the porn addiction that will actually beautify the family you know like uh the sexual repression which is happening inside the family the wife is complaining about that and the kids those those who are actually getting hurt from the uh kind of the all this sexual violence which is happening inside the home you know it's actually a great job you know um yeah on the 12th house there is mars this day uh and um that is 12th house and mars is the planet which is like uh that is in war so um you feel a recklessness like you feel like getting into a fight all the time so that is because the mars is staying on your uh 12th house so if you practice that 41 days of your particular yoga what happens is like all these things will make you to get grounded you know uh so wherever the planets are more sensitive on your position and things like that the yoga can yoga and the mantra can help you to uh make you grounded um so we have gone through your nakshatra details then we are coming to your um desha okay uh so as we can see um saturn is staying on your money baba which is like saturn is the planet which has uh which is associated with hard work and the the chart reading which comes up is like uh it will be better to wear of seven face which is actually for the planet saturn and that will actually help you to accelerate the um [Music] uh the energy of the saturn so the wealth part will be get balanced if you wear these saturn's uh so right now um when we are coming out to uh your desa so um till the age of six it was sun uh and from there it is moon uh so after the age of uh moon there will be chowa so how does it manifest in your life we are gonna look at on really deep so sun is staying on the dandruff house so till the age of six uh there could be a possibility of fighting with your father uh because the sun is staying on the uh dandruff house so at this particular from your god birth until the age of six there was a kind of um possible problem with your father with your family or with you which has been happened and that made you do that made uh you were you to form the life which you are into you know um from there mother has been uh helpful for you from the age of after that up to the age of 41 then the jupiter comes so jupiter is on your karma bhava so most possibly after the age of 41 or 42 you start uh you started to look at on the things much more deeply yeah absolutely so because jupiter is on uh staying on the 12th house and that is actually making youtube become more wise and making you to do things in very certain way yeah no that makes i mean especially like just mentioning like past 41 that's that's about the age that i started doing all the books and all the research and all the all the outreach to people of trying to trying to help things and trying to uh make the world a better place so do you have any questions regarding this no no this is fascinating so basically the consciousness how do we i mean the consciousness is not just the uh you know the chemical process it's also comes from beyond you know it's like uh you have you read the book commands search for meaning i have not uh so that so basically this is comes from something which is so beyond and that is actually reflecting on our life how we how to i mean that is how the conscious decisions comes up no that makes so so does based on this uh the the uh state of being that i'm in after 41 is that the state of being i will be in from this point forward regardless of how long i live uh jupiter uh from the age of 41 is starting and it is 16 so 41 51 51 57 till the age of 57 you will be in do more into writing you will be into uplifting people and things like that and then i can retire no after that it will teach you something like the karma which the life which we are into it is actually teaches us something you will get a lot of learning and that is where your soul is like it's it's in 12th 12th house the jupiter is staying so that is your what we say that is the way for your uh or liberation so this is the time you are gonna see yourself much more better way who you are what you are what what is the possible things which you can do things like that that's great that's that's i'll still kind of be young and and have more time there no this is this is absolutely fascinating now is is this considered religion is this considered i mean what what what area of of i guess philosophy um is is does this fall into it's esoterism basically okay yeah i guess yeah that makes sense it's uh like genosis in christianity they call it as genosis that's what the question is you know so basically this sacred geometry uh this is from um and this is uh from the sacred text of hindus okay uh and the same thing i saw in a buddhist thing that they what they bring out like esoteric principle like mandalas and things like that you know then i can see the same into uh christianity which is like genosis um and the same thing i saw into jewish judas kind of thinking it is like kabala yeah yeah now if when you read somebody's chart if you did my chart when i was 20 years old or when i'm 70 years old is it the same chart because of where the stars and planets were when i was born yeah it will be same okay okay this is like for like and what is the use of this is not just to know about the future it's not about how intensely we can live right yeah yeah no that makes that makes sense um how how does the yoga work into this now that now that you've shared this with me if i was interested in i i know that back when i was in my inpatient treatment facilities yoga was a big part of the treatment it was a big part of the centering yourself and making yourself feel better and for about a year afterwards i actually practiced some basic yoga um and then fell by the wayside if i was interested in uh having yoga come back to my life both from a flexibility point of view and a centering you know kind of spiritual thing uh what what would be the best way to integrate it with what you've shared with me so basically what is yoga yoga is about the union with the absolute absolute is like our center thing that is what absolute is that that people call it as uh god or whatsoever so it's like god is not outside of us code is not a secondary uh secondary uh you know um thing which is existing outside of our reach it's not just the man living up in the star up in the sky what is that it's not just a man living up in the sky so we are already here you know you are the god i am the god so that is why esoterism comes into picture you know all this symbolism and transcendent in the mind and getting union with something much more deeper which makes sense you know um so this esoteric principle uh of the tantra um it's like it helps you to get union with the absolute or god so ah that will bring us a kind of peace in our life you know so this if we are into peace we can actually have life in more intense way yeah and uh my last question was as i was looking over this and looking at some of the uh links that you gave me before we we did this uh podcast i i i never heard of is how do you pronounce uh rudraksh what is that i i'm not familiar with that as a uh it's a seed it's a seed uh which is actually um peoples in india believe is actually the eye drops of shiva lord shiva but basically it has a geometrical pattern that will actually uh go with the uh with the pattern which we are into like if we see the um sacred geometry from esoteric uh christianity genesis you know um that that also like it's also uh goes uh with this so basically it's not like i don't want to say it is a belief with so good or something like that it's like uh some kind of tools and technologies which which all the religions talks about like sacred geometry yandras tundras what does it matter that my number is seven seven is not your number uh the saturn's rudraksha has seven phases okay okay so for instance we have spoken about your tree in uh your chart reading so you can actually communicate with the three much more deeply the same way the saturn as a planet i mean saturn as an energy that thing can communicate with this particular seed more deeply so you were in your chart the saturn energy is more evident and that is making you to work more harder in order to make money so if you wear this particular rudraksha it will accelerate the saturn energy on you so you can actually uh um accelerate the particular energy on your body or your own existence okay all right all right that makes sense um all right i think those were the questions i had when i went through uh this is yeah this is absolutely fascinating it's amazing how much is absolutely 100 correct and uh you know you you were almost telling me you know a good part of my life story just going through this so there's uh you know it's definitely something to this so the basically when i started podcasting it's like um see the most of the people's approximately 98 days the things are coming into current if you go through the podcast whatever i have actually done it's not like it's not pre-recorded it's not like uh somebody's given instruction to do that because i have done it with different people like dr thomas and david lewis and all i can pay for them to do whatever you know right right yes yes yes no this is this is this was great and this is a uh you know this i've i've done hundreds of interviews at this point this was really something that i found interesting and and uh you know i i think anything that we can use as a tool regardless of where it comes from regardless of any religion it's tied to regardless the more we can learn about ourselves and even more importantly than that one of the things that i went through that i found uh very interesting about this and interesting about your describing my chart to me is that people's origin stories are so important you have to know where you came from to know where you're going you have to know how you got to where you are today to get to the next place in a healthier way and you know it was i unfortunately i didn't know that until i was almost 40 years old um but now that i recognize that i can see that you know this is just another way of uh you know tracing your origin story and understanding you know how you became the person you are and you know for good and bad um how you became the total person so i think that this is you know absolutely a fascinating tool and i i thank you for uh you know sharing it with me and uh opening my eyes more to it i knew it existed i'd never had my chart done before so this was uh this was a real treat and my daughter is very much uh into a lot of this type of reading so i can't wait for the podcast to be published so i can share it with her because i know she'll uh she'll find this absolutely fascinating yeah um so you want to say anything about you to uh the people who are gonna listen to our podcast if someone want to reach you out how they can do and what and all you can offer to them can you pick yourself you know yeah yeah absolutely um you know i i just want people to know that number one if you have a problem with pornography or you have a problem with any addiction you need to get it taken care of addiction like i said 99 out of 100 times it doesn't get better on its own you need to be an active participant in getting better and it's hard work but you can do it and there are many ways to do it some people go for 12-step groups like alcoholics anonymous or sex addicts anonymous there are people who go the religious group there are people who go the medicinal root the therapy route the research group most people take a little bit of different areas and blend them together for their own unique uh course if you want to check out my website it is recoveringpornatic.com there's a resources page there and it has many of these different ways that you can get help because if you have an issue you need to get help if you just want to learn more there are i i write a couple articles every week there are links to my books if you want some coaching i also offer that through the site but anything you need from me even if you just want to get in touch with me check out recoveringpornatic.com and everything you want to know will be there so thank you once again to joining with me and have a nice that evening or afternoon uh it's it's just past noon here so yeah it's uh good good afternoon happy new year and you have a good evening thank you all right thank you so much yes bye-bye bye now thank you for listening to my podcast you could connect with me in ireland's yoga.ion where you could see my contact details including my phone number my whatsapp and email id stay tuned for more exciting episodes